You are your own problem solver

what are problems?

Something created out of misunderstanding,dissatisfaction,non fulfillment of expectations,failure in achieving goals in life,Peer pressure.family issue,relationship issues,Job dissatisfaction,Feeling of loneliness e.t.c.

One must understand a simple thing the problem that has been created by you,suffered by you,faced by you how can some one else lava the right solution for it.No matter who advice you,what they advice you at the end you turn back to yourself asking is that truly the right solution to my problem?

It is very easy for others to advice; they are not the bearers of the sufferings and circumstances.

Have faith in your decision making capability.Trust yourself that yes i know what the problem is ,I know that what action has to be taken towards resolving the problem,i know my resolution is fit and best for me.

I am not saying that do not listen to what others have to advice for the problem.Be a good 

listener.Evaluate ,calculate the possibilities of solutions and finally after the considerations start with the course of action required for solving the problem.

Others would be sympathetic towards your problem;but the reality is when a person faces hurdles or problem its empathy that they have an urge for and not sympathy.

You are your own problem solver no one knows you more than you :your own self.You are the secret possessor of the your strength,weakness your capabilities your fears. You know best what is right or wrong for you.A wise solution is achieved only after the evaluation of these aspects.

 # There is an image attached to the post stating that If you are solving someone else's problem,you are constantly stabbing in the dark.but when you solve you own problem the light come on