Time keeps on changing and people keep coming and going. We can't really change the way they are and we have no right to actually tell them that what is good or what is bad.
Why to feel the hurt and the pain caused by them. The easy way out to ventilate all the frustration and humiliation is to LET IT BE......
The good part about this statement is when you actually remind yourself about the same, the more you feel calm and relaxed.
I know, some problems are supposed to discussed but that some problems are endless at times. You can't help it.
Yesterday only it happened that a lady started arguing with the other one and i knew both of them. i was just noticing them that at least one will stop but actually nobody did... at the end i asked one of them to keep quite so that the other one will automatically stop. and this is how it happened. and the discussion ended. We have a life and our own and so do others.
Complaining about others is easy and telling them their fault is the the best thing on this earth.... but why do we ignore the same thing when somebody tell us our faults and negatives. When the actual mirror is shown to us, why do we ignore........ do we tend to eventually or what is the reason..
The reason is that we ourselves think we are perfect and so do others has to be. we are into our thought process of changing the world around us... but we can't... sooner or later you have to accept and start inculcating those little little changes in yourselves so that nothing will seem a botheration anymore..... Relations are delicate, hurting someone just because you think you he/she was wrong is not good enough. its just being so unfair because you are not actually listening the other person and you are imposing yourself. Every situation has a better way for a better tomorrow...................... keep going...!!!!
Why to feel the hurt and the pain caused by them. The easy way out to ventilate all the frustration and humiliation is to LET IT BE......
The good part about this statement is when you actually remind yourself about the same, the more you feel calm and relaxed.
I know, some problems are supposed to discussed but that some problems are endless at times. You can't help it.
Yesterday only it happened that a lady started arguing with the other one and i knew both of them. i was just noticing them that at least one will stop but actually nobody did... at the end i asked one of them to keep quite so that the other one will automatically stop. and this is how it happened. and the discussion ended. We have a life and our own and so do others.
Complaining about others is easy and telling them their fault is the the best thing on this earth.... but why do we ignore the same thing when somebody tell us our faults and negatives. When the actual mirror is shown to us, why do we ignore........ do we tend to eventually or what is the reason..
The reason is that we ourselves think we are perfect and so do others has to be. we are into our thought process of changing the world around us... but we can't... sooner or later you have to accept and start inculcating those little little changes in yourselves so that nothing will seem a botheration anymore..... Relations are delicate, hurting someone just because you think you he/she was wrong is not good enough. its just being so unfair because you are not actually listening the other person and you are imposing yourself. Every situation has a better way for a better tomorrow...................... keep going...!!!!
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